My spouse was a very late adopter vs me, to going online & using a pc, so in this way I was lucky that they didn’t know to question things that I did with their pc, like using ad blockers, choosing their search engine & browser, etc. And I was lucky that they never grew to have any interest in any of this, they just let me do what I wanted, because as long as they could go online & their pc ran smoothly, they weren’t complaining. As for our kids, they are who I always go to for any concerns of my own, and they are who taught me how to use a pc and go online. They have also dubbed me paranoid panda, but they don’t mind if I become overly obsessed about privacy/security, because in the end now, we all have our own pc’s and internet capable devices and our own internet connections.