You eat the base of the pizza there? That’s crazy. It’s like eating a paper plate. You are supposed to eat only the topping. Next you’re gonna say you eat the bread that wraps your sandwiches.

I have an account in beehaw too, and it’s usually the one that interacts with the world. It’s considerably different from a different instance.

Are you saying we can’t know if someone is male or female just by looking at them and that there are other options according to the discussion below?

Have you considered that you’re a people pleaser? Being kind and nice is good, but do you do that in detriment of yourself? Can you say no to favors?