slaytswiftfan@beehaw.orgtoChat@beehaw.org•The Beehaw project is entering some significant challengesEnglish
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1 year agoWherever it leads I’ll follow !
she/her
Wherever it leads I’ll follow !
bound to happen when a community is expanded out of hate and negativity. the second people couldn’t redirect all of their anger towards reddit they turned towards others.
agreed and it’s slowly pushing me away from using lemmy
thank youuu!!
I saw her in June it was amazing! Her set alone was like 3 hours long!!!
I hope there’s going to be a concert film 😭
i came out as female to my family and close friends and they have all been very supportive 🥺❤️
there’s a lot of “exclusivity” behaviour on this community that I’ve noticed (and a loooot of us vs the mentality too, in regards to twitter/reddit/bluesky/mastodon)
Im sorry you had to witness that. I grew up on forums and message boards in the mid 2000s and onward and Ive still not forgotten a lot of the shock images and other vile things people would post on forums.
You essentially sacrificed a part of your innocence to aid the community and i find that incredibly selfless and respected, although again I am truly sorry it ever had to come to that.
I know it’s not really my place as a stranger to give unsolicited advice but if you find yourself struggling, there is a form of therapy called EMDR that is supposedly very successful with getting the brain to fully digest traumatic events.