It’s her I miss, beyond any doubts. I’m fighting like hell to work something out, but also trying to give her some space, it’s difficult finding the right balance between the two.

I’ve done all of this as best I can, but I’m struggling with the eating and sleeping. I’m doing my best though.

My girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me on Sunday, she’s the love of my life (have known each other far longer than 2 years). We have a child together, I don’t know what to do about it.

I’m trying to talk to her and discuss how we can work through it, I don’t know if it’s going to work.

Keep your fingers crossed for me I guess?

I also haven’t eaten or slept properly since, I’m starving but I can’t actually put food in my mouth.

She’s as Tory as you can get

I went Win > Mint > Manjaro (for a day) > Arch

Njalla - you can pay in crypto and they are privacy focused

They have VPSs as well but I don’t know if they are any good price wise

Starr apps for media or ytdl for YouTube

This is what I use, jellyfin or Plex to watch them

I had this issue so many times, I ended up re installing and having everything on 1 partition instead of separating root and home

I just self hosted everything I needed and dl my fav YouTube channels’ videos to my server

I use internet on my phone to look up something every now and then and I’ll browse lemmy for a bit if I get bored

Other than that I don’t really use the internet outside of essential stuff like banking and emailing

It looks pretty good but its usability is shit

Not seeing anyone suggesting unRAID… it’s perfect for this kind of thing (from experience). VMs, LXC, Docker & flexible storage options.

Has its own App Store built in as well🤷‍♀️

Thanks good to know, after I hit this upload limit with one of my services I honestly considered nuking the whole nginx setup and using WG or TS, still on the fence about it all

100mb is the max I think

You could’ve used rclone?

I worked in a small team and our stuff rarely broke. We set it all up to use minimal resources and mostly automated maintenance and we went unnoticed for most of my time there. Everyone else thought we were just sitting around doing nothing and getting paid for it. It created an uncomfortable environment, was glad to leave at the end of it.

Did Linux sys admin type work for a few years and can confirm there was never a DE in sight

Glad to see bigger windows is a thing now

Been using nextcloud for about 5 years, right now I use it for storing files and nothing else, and it still kinda sucks at that.

Gonna use paperless for any documents I have in NC, after that there won’t be much left in there, just some old dot files. Maybe I’ll get rid of it entirely

If you ever give unRAID a try;

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